A wet spot on the bed is a sure indicator, but the moment of ejaculation may not be obvious to the woman. The techniques that are most often suggested for increasing ejaculatory control simply build on this strength you already possess: I have always been able to recognize when a partner is cumming in me. She could feel his sperm about sex Sex is confusing. Hence, ejaculating into the bowels is likely to be barely felt but it still can be, of course. Will you grow out of it?