Underlying Dynamics of the Sex Addict. Instead, the young woman at the motor vehicle department simply smiled and made the changes. Unlike the kids of today that might hide drugs inside a turntable or speakers, I was hiding bras and panties in them! Now i've been sober Addiction to crossdressing and masturbation almost 6 months with some relapses but my problem is this. Does pursuit of sex make you careless for yourself or the welfare of your family or others?